Rewire Your Anxious Brain: How to Use the Neuroscience of Fear to End Anxiety, Panic, and Worryby Catherine M. Pittman PhD, Elizabeth M. Karle MLIS

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life (Revised and Expanded): The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Lack of Focus, Anger, and Memory Problemsby Daniel G. Amen M.D.

Dare: The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks by  Barry McDonagh

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle Paperback by  Emily Nagoski PhD, Amelia Nagoski DMA

The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by  Edmund J. Bourne PhD

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life (Revised and Expanded): The Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depression, Obsessiveness, Lack of Focus, Anger, and Memory Problems by Daniel G. Amen M.D.

The ACT Workbook for Depression and Shame: Overcome Thoughts of Defectiveness and Increase Well-Being Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy by  Matthew McKay PhD, Michael Jason Greenberg PsyD, Patrick Fanning

Victim + Survivor Family Support

• Resources for Parents of Children Who Have Been Sexually Abused https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/resources-for-parents-of-children-who-have-been-sexually-abused

• Office of Victims of Crimes https://ovc.ojp.gov/taxonomy/term/victim-support-groups

• Mothers of Sexually Abused Children (MOSAC) https://www.nsvrc.org/organizations/mothers-sexually-abused-children-mosac/

• Caring for Kids: What Parents need to know about sexual abuse https://www.nctsn.org/resources/caring-kids-what-parents-need-know-about-sexual-abuse

• Taking Action: Support for Families of Adolescents with Illegal Sexual Behaviors by Barbara Bonner, Ph.D. (free download)

Daily Support through Treatment + Recovery

• Support for Families, Friends, and Partners of Perpetrators https://survivorsnetwork.org.uk/resource/support-for-families-friends-and-partners-of-perpetrators/

• Prison Families Alliance https://prisonfamiliesalliance.org/

• Facing Shame: Families in Recovery by Merle A. Fossum, Marilyn J. Mason 

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book) by  Don Miguel Ruiz

Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence by  Dr. Anna Lembke

Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience (Harper Perennial Modern Classics) by  Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

Visioneering: Your Guide for Discovering and Maintaining Personal Vision by  Andy Stanley

Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life by  Bill Burnett, Dave Evans

Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by  Dr. Kristin Neff

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by  Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Lifeby Henry Cloud and John Townsend

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life by Daniel G. Amen, MD

Facing Internet Technology and Gaming Addiction: A Gentle Path to Beginning Recovery from Internet and Video Game Addiction

by Hilarie Cash, Cosette Rae

Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations For Working Through Grief‍ ‍by Martha Whitmore Hickman

Michael Rosens Sad Book by Michael Rosen

It's OK That You're Not OK Paperback by  Megan Devine

Life Without Ed: How One Woman Declared Independence from Her Eating Disorder and How You Can Too by  Jenni Schaefer, Thom Rutledge

The Mind-Gut Connection by Emeran Mayer

Wired to Eat: Turn Off Cravings, Rewire Your Appetite for Weight Loss, and Determine the FoodsThat Work for You by Robb Wolf

The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Loveby Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton

More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (More Than Two Essentials) by  Franklin Veaux, Janet Hardy, Tatiana Gill

Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship by  John M. Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, Joan Declaire

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expertby John Gottman PhD and Nan Silver

For Adolescents

• C is for Consentby Eleanor Morrison, Faye Orlove

• Breaking the Hush Factor: Ten Rules for Talking with Teenagers about Sexby Dr. Karen Rayne

• For Goodness Sex: Changing the Way We Talk to Teens About Sexuality, Values, and Health – Updated Tools for Parents Teaching Adolescents About Sexuality Beyond Abstinenceby Al Vernacchio

• https://www.whatsok.org A safe online space for young people to ask about sexual feelings, thoughts & behaviors.

For Adults

• Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability: For All of Us Who Live with Disabilities, Chronic Pain, and Illnessby Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg

• Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desireby Lori A. Brotto, Emily Nagoski

• The Pleasure Gap: American Women and the Unfinished Sexual Revolutionby Katherine Rowland

• The Come as You Are Workbook: A Practical Guide to the Science of Sexby Emily Nagoski Ph.D.

• Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Traumaby Staci Haines

• Sensate Focus in Sex Therapyby Linda Weiner, Constance Avery-Clark

• Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Lifeby Elle Chase

• Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sexby Joan Price

• Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sexby Angela Chen

• Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationshipsby Juno Roche

• Coping with Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sexby Barry W. McCarthy PhD, Michael E. Metz PhD

• She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman  by  Ian Kerner

• The Penis Book: A Doctor's Complete Guide to the Penis--From Size to Function and Everything in Between by  Aaron Spitz M.D.

• Mirror of Intimacy: Daily Reflections on Emotional and Erotic Intelligence by Alexandra Katehakis and Tom Bliss

• Buddha's Bedroom: The Mindful Loving Path to Sexual Passion and Lifelong Intimacy by Cheryl Fraser PhD, Jack Kornfield PhD, and Trudy Goodman PhD.

• Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal by Savannah Hauk, Judith Swain

Breathing Under Water: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps by Richard Rohr O.F.M.

Gifts of Recovery: Daily Meditations for Men and Women in Recovery from Sex Addiction by Timothy D Stein

A Year of Self-Love: Daily Wisdom and Inspiration for Loving Yourself (A Year of Daily Reflections) by Troy L. Love MSW LCSW

Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom by Rick Hanson, PhdD, and Richard Medius, MD

Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw

Emotional Safety: Honoring Yourself While Creating Trust and Presence to Experience Meaningful Relationships by Alex Avila

Silently Seduced: When Parents Make Their Children Partners by Kenneth M. Adams, Ph.D.

A Light in the Dark: The Hidden Legacy of Adult Children of Sex Addicts by Kenneth M. Adams, PhD., Mary E. Meyer, PhD, LMFT, and Culle L. Vande Garde, LCSW

When He's Married to Mom: How to Help Mother-Enmeshed Men Open Their Hearts to True Love and Commitment by Kenneth M. Adams, Ph. D., with Alexander P. Morgan

Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction by Dr. Eddie Capparucci LPC, C-CSAS

Neglect The Silent Abuser. How to Recognize and Heal from childhood neglect by Enod Gray

Finding Peace: A Workbook on Healing From loss, neglect, rejection, abandonment, betrayal, and abuse by Troy L. Love, MSW, LCSW

Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child by John Bradshaw

Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter A. Levine and Ann Frederick

Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by  Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, J. Keith Miller

The Gaslighting Recovery Workbook: Healing From Emotional Abuse by  Amy Marlow-MaCoy LPC

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents by  Lindsay C. Gibson 

Groups

• Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)

• Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA)

• Sexaholics Anonymous (SA)

• Sexual Recovery Anonymous (SRA)

• Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (SCA)

• Porn Addicts Anonymous (PAA)

• Sex and Porn Addicts Anonymous (SPAA) 

• Celebrate Recovery

Books

• Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss

• The Seeking Integrity Sex Addiction 101 Workbook by Robert Weiss

• Sex Under the Influence: Understanding and Healing from Sexualized Drug Use by David Fawcett

• Lust, Men, and Meth: A Gay Man’s Guide to Sex and Recovery by David Fawcett

• The Seeking Integrity Porn Addiction Workbook, by Seeking Integrity and Robert Weiss, PhD

• Sex and Porn Addiction Healing and Recovery: A Practical Daily Reader for Sex and Porn Addicts by Scott Brassart

• Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men (Second Edition) by Robert Weiss

• Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction by Paula Hall

• Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sex Addiction by Dr. Patrick Carnes

• Out of the Dog House for Christian Men: A Redemptive Guide for Men Caught Cheating by Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S and Marnie C. Ferree LMFT, CSAT

• Why Men Struggle to Love: Reparenting the Inner Child by Dr. Eddie Capparucci LPC, C-CSAS

• Addicted to Love: Recovery, Empowerment, and Finding Your True Self by Lacy Alajna Bentley

• The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life by Dr. Robin Stern

• For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual & Financial Betrayal in Relationship by Debra L. Kaplan

• Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money, and Power in Relationships by Debra Kaplan

• Cybersex Exposed: Simple Fantasy or Obsession? by Jennifer Schneider, Robert Weiss

• Sex and Porn Addiction Healing and Recovery: A Practical Daily Reader for Sex and Porn Addicts

Media

• https://successfuladdict.com/blog/

• Understanding 12 step groups

• Choosing and benefiting from 12 step groups

Podcasts

• Porn, Betrayal, Sex, and the Experts - PBSE

• Celebrate Recovery Official

• How Can I Rebuild Trust?

• Helping Couples Heal

• Therapy Brothers

• Lights On with Carl Lentz

• The Sex Addiction Podcast

Books

• Courageous Love: A Couples Guide to Conquering Betrayal by Dr. Stefanie Carnes

• Help. Her. Heal. by Carol Juergensen Sheets LCSW, CSAT

• We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of depth, true connection, and enduring love by Stan Tatkin Ph.D., MFT

• The Couples Guide to Intimacy: How Sexual Reintegration Therapy can Help Your Relationship Heal by Drs. Bill & Ginger Bercaw

• The Trust Solution: A couple's guide to healing intimate betrayal by Merry Frons, PhD

• Intimate Treason: Healing the Trauma for Partners Confronting Sex Addiction by Claudia Black, Cara Tripodi

Podcasts

• https://helpingcouplesheal.com/podcasts/

• How Can I Rebuild Trust?

• Helping Couples Heal

Books

• Addiction in the Family: Helping Families Navigate Challenges, Emotions, and Recovery by Louise Stanger EDD LCSW

• Disclosing Secrets: An Addict's Guide for When, to Whom, and How Much to Reveal by M Deborah Corley Ph.D. (Author), Jennifer P Schneider M.D.

Websites

https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com/sexaddiction%2Fthe-betrayed

Books

Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency by Robert Weiss

Life Anonymous: 12 Steps to Heal and Transform Your Life by Kristin M. Snowden and Scott Brassart

Courageous Love: A Couples Guide to Conquering Betrayal by Stefanie Carnes

The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Hurts You the Worst, by Michelle Mays

Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal by Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means

Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts by Dr. Stephanie Carnes

Sex Addiction: The Partner’s Perspective by Paula Hall

Moving Beyond Betrayal, by Vicki Tidwell Palmer

When It All Breaks Bad: 10 Things To Do (And Not Do) After Betrayal by Michelle Mays

Treating Trauma from Sexual Betrayal: The Essential Tools for Healing by Kevin Skinner

Ready to Heal: Breaking Free of Addictive Relationships by Kelly McDaniel

Intimate Deception: Healing the Wounds of Sexual Betrayal by Dr. Sheri Keffer

Back From Betrayal: Recovering from the Trauma of Infidelity by Jennifer P. Schneider M.D.

Ambushed by Betrayal: The Survival Guide for Betrayed Partners on Their Heroes' Journey to Healthy Intimacy by Michele F. Saffier, Allan J. Katz

Sex Addiction: The Partner's Perspective by Paula Hall

Groups

• Infidelity Survivors Anonymous (ISA)

• Adult Children of Alcoholics

• Al-Anon

• Alateen (ages twelve to seventeen)

• COSA

• Families Anonymous

• Prodependence Anonymous

• Recovering Couples Anonymous

• S-Anon

• Celebrate Recovery

Books

• 40 Forms of Intimacy: Integrating Daily Connection into your Couple Relationship by Alex Avila

• Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction by Dr. Alexandra Katehakis PhD MFT CSAT-S CST-S

• It's Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Intimacy after Sexual Addiction by Andrew Susskind, LCSW, SEP, CGP

• The Ultimate Survival Guide for Navigating Healthy Boundaries by Deborah A. DePolo, MA., LPC

Tech

• Covenant Eyes

• Vidangel

• Qustodio

• Mobicip

• GenTech

Websites

• culturereframed.org

• seekingintergrity.com

• https://talkingforchange.ca

• https://www.helpwantedprevention.org